We Need A Hero

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Since it is so likely that children will meet cruel enemies, let them at least have heard of brave knights and heroic courage.”  C.S. Lewis

 

I lecture (nag) my kids all the time. I’m not so much the “clean your room, pick up your shoes” nagger. My lectures tend to be less practical. I’m a cliché nagger. You know, “don’t judge a book by its cover”, “treat others the way you want to be treated”, “turn the other cheek”, “the truth will set you free”, *“don’t waste food because it’s disrespectful to hungry kids” etc.

I say that kind of stuff all the time, with zeal and fervor. Lately, my zeal and fervor has a touch of bitterness. It feels as if every thematic lesson we talk about in our home is turned inside out then served up as a nasty after dinner snack every single solitary evening; when we watch or hear scoundrels lie, bully, betray and then lie some more. The fact that the scoundrels hold positions of authority over us is an extra kick in the gut. I imagine that children think that we think they are stupid or they label us as hypocrites.

It must sound as though I’ve begun to doubt the values that Tim and I are teaching our kids. Not even close. I am, however discouraged by the fact that what I once thought were universal values, are not at all when the chips are down. At this point, we are attached to the high road by a singular superficial thread. We watch the most egregious lapses in honor and common decency, and the response? Carefully worded, ambiguous rebukes. This is not the time to keep calm and carry on. We need a hero. Someone to speak the truth and forge ahead with real, honest to goodness solutions, because the sky is falling.

*This one isn’t a true cliché…yet.
Image from “Mr. Smith Goes to Washington”

 

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Get a Load Off

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But it also thinks that a great many things have gone wrong with the world that God made and that God insists, and insists very loudly, on our putting them right again.  C.S. Lewis/Mere Christianity

Dear Christian;

I haven’t written anything in weeks.  I had nothing because my vision of what I wanted this blog to be (reflective, but upbeat) was at odds with all the things I’ve been thinking and feeling since the elections last November.  I’ve been affected in a way that was profound and unexpected.  What happened?   I love politics.  I love to debate the merits of the policy du jour.  Not so this time, because this election was never elevated to discussions on policy.  Instead we were continually tripping over behavior that most of us would not tolerate from even the most casual acquaintance.  No good good come from the leadership of a guy who has been accused of defrauding students (Trump University), whose charitable foundation admitted to violating a ban on “self dealing”, who publicly ridiculed a disabled person, and…so much more.  I’ve felt isolated, wondering why I felt the sting of this election so personally, when everyone around me has moved on.  I’ve considered the suggestion that much of my angst was a result of my tendency to over analyze.  Maybe I’m one of the many whiny babies and sore losers that some in the media have made reference to.  I don’t suppose it matters anymore, because today is the day I move on.  I’m intentionally looking forward with certainty and confidence.

Of course, before I move on; here’s what I need to say.

What has blown me away, and kept me stuck is my confusion and disappointment at the large number of Christians that voted for the President-elect. I can’t wrap my head around it.  The math doesn’t work.  Our faith is in Christ, who commands us to love others as we love ourselves.  We watched or read tweets from a man who blatantly insulted, vilified and bullied humans from all walks of life.  Supporting that is the opposite of love.  God is moral and just.  Why would we choose to support a leader who almost daily shows a lack of regard and compassion for the earth and people that God created?  It isn’t reasonable for a Christian to believe that a just Supreme Court will spring from the nominees of a man who has exhibited blatant immorality?  I feel certain that the means will not net the hoped for end.  *You reap what you sow

God gifted us with free will.  We choose freely to follow Christ.  Our obedience to Him flows from a submitted heart, not the law.  We have been commissioned to share Christ by modeling the life He led; not by ramming the law down people’s throats.  Aligning ourselves with any leader who repeatedly espouses disdain for every value we are supposed to hold dear does deep damage to our cause.  We are to foster change in the way people want to live. We do that with compassion, cheerful generosity and kindness.  I sincerely believe that God weeps at the thought of us trying to achieve His purposes by any means necessary.  Christianity isn’t losing the cultural war because of its values.  Its losing, because many Christians adhere to the letter of the law, while shamefully ignoring the Spirit.  Isn’t that what the Pharisees did?

The election is over, but the need to be clear about what you believe and where you stand as a Christian is urgent.  Christianity was never about seeking personal comfort.  Even its founder billed it as difficult.  Choosing to follow Christ is a grave, but noble decision.  Choosing to live that decision means relying on tradition and groupthink won’t cut it.  Prayer and soul searching followed by action will.

Writing my thoughts has been cathartic.  My intent is not to hurt or alienate, but to share what I believe to be true while providing a little food for thought.

Meanwhile, I appreciate the opportunity to share what has been foremost in my thoughts.  Thanks!

Please share your thoughts whether you are opposed or in agreement with mine.

*Galatians 6:7

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Let Them Eat Cake or: How To Salvage the 2016 Presidential Election

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Ignorance is not bliss.  Anger and hate speech is not a promising long term proposition for making America great again.  How did anger and hatred become such an integral part of our political landscape?  It’s disturbing and frightening to watch, but sadly no longer shocking. It fuels candidacies and excites electorates.  This anger/hatred is a thing.  It’s evident in today’s rhetoric, and its plain to see on the faces of so many who are inspired by angry, hate fueled speech.

Hatred has its particular place in a free society.  Everything does.  Its place is among haters; shouting, complaining and spreading venom among themselves.  Sometimes hatred has to be taken seriously, but it should never be given legitimate power.  Hatred married with power brings disaster on the rest of us.  It’s by products are war, oppression and of course, more hate.   Hatred has fueled much of the true evil that has been wrought in this world.  No good has ever come of it.

Haters are unreasonable, because hatred is a childish emotion.  Carefully thought out solutions are not the modus operandi of the hater .  Hater issues may be legitimate, but their proposed solutions are destructive.

How do you recognize a hater?  You know them by their fruits.  They shout and blast rather than ponder and explain.  They throw out violent, extreme and even illegal solutions without flinching.  They demean and bully.  Ultimately, they propose things that will take you out of the frying pan and in to the fire.

So, what do we do?  How do we let the haters keep hating (cause we can’t stop them), while the rest of us plod along trying to build something better?  Simple.  We explain to the haters that it’s one thing to gather and give full vent to resentment; while celebrating with like minded people about cruel and unusual remedies to the country’s problems.  It is quite another to become so disconnected from reality and common decency that you allow yourself to vote for the architect of the aforementioned remedies.  Mr. or Ms. Hater, don’t wreck the whole world, because of  your dissatisfaction with your world.  Cheer for whoever you want, but vote for a leader who will protect your right to rail against whatever and whoever you want.  The candidate who loves the law, will not seek to put himself above it, while keeping you beneath it.  Do yourself a favor and use your anonymous vote to elect intelligent, principled candidates.  No one has to know.

Do the right thing with your one vote, so that you can continue to endorse the wrong things.    Once you have secretly voted to secure all our rights (without kicking people out of their homes, or banning American citizens from returning to their homes), you can go back to hating with renewed gusto, minus the concern that you will have to send your sons/daughters to fight because of some ill conceived and combative policy that your guy will be bound to make. This is a win/win proposition.

You really can have your cake and eat it too.

Remember, those who use hatred as a political tool, have a personal agenda.  I promise it’s not to make the world a better place for you or me.

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