Betrayal of the Constitution ≠ Unity

“…the vigor of government is essential to the security of liberty” Alexander Hamilton (The Federalist Papers”) 

Over the past few weeks, we have heard calls for unity, from politicians of every stripe. I find it kind of funny that politicians who generally can’t agree on much of anything, have become united in their generic belief that the rest of us should be united. 

On the surface, the concept of unity seems positive and straightforward. In reality, the pleas for more unity always seem vague. We need specificity if we are to seriously pursue the work of repairing our nation by becoming more unified. 

The foundational principles of our government embody a framework that is unifying. For us, unity can be achieved by simply following the dictates of our Constitution.The path has been mapped, we just need to insist that everyone follow it.

There are more than 340 million people in The United States. We will never worship the same, look the same or perceive our experience of life in the same way. This is as it should be; a truly free nation is meant to have complex layers of diversity. The United States was created to be a nation that survives rather than caves when faced with the inevitable conflicts of so many people. 

The conflict around ideas in our large country is eternal and unavoidable. Freedom to push for separate agendas on the one hand, while intentionally defending the individual protections provided by The Bill of Rights on the other, is a privilege and a gift. Our unity will never be broken by passionate disagreement, because any discord is blunted by the requirement to submit to the limits set in place by our governmental framework. 

If we the people refuse to waver in our support for our framework of government and insist that our elected officials do the same, we will have all the unity that we need. 

Unity is baked into our constitutional government. Checks and balances, separation of powers and provisions for individual rights are the foundational ideas that keep us from allowing our grievances and differences to be our undoing. The framers of our government crafted a framework that includes a roadmap able to guide us through the inevitable conflicts and occasional disruptions caused by the corrupt and power hungry. The core of our unity is our tacit agreement to follow our own rules and hold in contempt any leader who blatantly disrespects or attempts to subvert them. The framers of our Constitution were flawed men, but they rose to the occasion and gifted us with an enduring form of Government that does not oppress, but seeks to protect. Accountability for those who take an oath to support and defend the Constitution, but refuse to do so is key to our unity. Ultimately, unity is achieved by acceptance of our multifaceted diversity and the simple requirement that our leaders obey the law. 

Like whomever you want, worship in whatever way you want, but draw the line at choosing a leader who shows blatant disregard for our constitutional protections. We must be unified in our insistence that those to whom we give power, must play by the rules that have served us for more than 235 years.

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SEE NO EVIL, HEAL NO EVIL

Memory separates us
It’s the root of our great divide

We were born in the same space
at the same time

Your recollections are misty with soft edges and water colors
backlit with sunshine and mint juleps

My memories are soaked with the sounds of fear and rage
underscored by the persistent melody of bitterness
with only two colors-
Black and White

We existed in the same space, at the same time
yet
our memories are not reconciled
they exist on different planes

Mine want you to look
We need you to see
but
your memories, so precious to you
will die
unless you stop denying the truth of mine

You tire of my need
convinced that my weakness is the problem
Wishing that I would just be quiet

You exhaust your strength
seeking imaginative ways to rearrange the past
so that the present is squarely on me

Do you ever grow weary?

Ask me

I am weary all the time

My scars are old, but still fresh
Unless you decide to remember how I got them
WE can’t be healed

Until then
Your memory will continue to betray us both

(monica d.)

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A.I.

Love It and Hate It

We bought a smart speaker a few years ago. I love it, and I hate it.

It’s a thing, yet it has power and a name. What power? The power to infuriate me, the power to ease my ADHD symptoms, and the ability to help me teach life lessons to my children, in a way that may or may not be effective, but sure is fun.

Against my will, I refer to this smart speaker/robot as her. She has a name, but here, I’ll refer to her as “the robot”.

I’m always at a disadvantage with the robot.  Lately, we’ve settled into a pattern of dealing with each other, where she is stoic, stubborn and irreverent, while I am angry, testy and rude. Here’s a sample exchange:

Me: “Robot, play my playlist, Hymns”.

Smart Speaker: “I don’t see your playlist, thems”.

Me: Repeat request.

Robot: “I don’t see your playlist, Tims”.

Me: “That’s because, I said, Hymns!! Robot, PLAY MY PLAYLIST, HYMNS!”

Robot: “Okay, here’s a station you might like”. (She proceeds to play a song I don’t like)

Usually at this point, someone in my family intervenes by making the exact same request I had made, but with a calmer demeanor and at a lower volume. Guess what? They get the correct result every single time. I really hate that.

Why not get rid of the robot? Well, she’s clever, and answers every request my family makes perfectly. For added measure, she delights them with jokes and riddles. The robot’s disdain is directed exclusively toward me, leading my family to incorrectly conclude that the problem is me.

Of course, there are times when the robot comes through for me as well. For example, this morning, I was talking to my daughter about her stubbornness. She has a gift for tenacity that can be, a little much. I was explaining how important it is to stick to one’s guns, but equally important to know how to determine when to set an idea aside or abandon the idea altogether. The song, “The Gambler”, came to mind. Kenny Rogers had already put everything I was trying to say to music with a poker metaphor! I asked the robot to play the song, and seconds later we were listening to a life lesson about knowing and assessing our options in life. I love it when that happens.

Fold em, hold em, walk away or run.  That covers it.

See, sometimes the robot redeems herself. For now, as it relates to the robot, we aren’t going to walk away. As for my daughter’s tenacious spirit, I can’t wait for the subject to come up again. The robot and I will be ready with a rousing rendition of “Let It Go” from the movie, Frozen!

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